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Support is close at hand

2/26/2014

 
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 Being supported takes practice.  Mostly, we expect the universe to read our minds, which it usually does, as it follows our desires into action.  Our passion brings all the right energy and empowerment. We use Gratitude to keep our heart open.  Love and appreciation go a long way.


Here are some pointers for receiving  

  • Remember to Ask the universe first and set clear intentions.
  • Watch what motivates the people who support you and create systems that strengthen their initiative. 
  • Hear yourself when you are complaining. Ground your disappointment before you communicate.  Be clear with your needs and work together to create a plan of action that corrects the problem. 
  • Some people come to support one portion of your project and may not have the capacity to do it all.  

On a practical level, we do best when we are organized and develop a healthy relationship to time.  We have to organize differently when others come to help.  It is important to be clear in your needs and expectations and acceptance it usually takes longer than you think it should.  Learn to trust your intuition and stay open to getting your needs met, even when you are not sure how it is going to work.  

Resentment and blame are common reactions when we do not feel supported. Unfortunately these protective forces stop us from receiving, by making us feel more separate and alone. These guardians often repeat the problem with attitude and justify the negativity from past experience.  They speak hurt rather than the developing clear outcomes.  To add even more to the fire, any pattern of abandonment and hurt will fuel these justifications, as opening to support brings us closer to unmet needs.  We are testing our relationship to separation and pride as we open to new levels of receiving.  

Apply Compassion, Mercy and Grace, as we melt down old reactions and open to getting our needs met on a whole new level.   Honor your guardians of resentment and blame for keeping you safe as you find your voice of Presence.   

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